buyhercandy:
my grandmother is dying. i don’t feel sad about it or anything. should i? we were never very close, even though she and her husband (who died in 2001) are/were my closest relations with regards to geography.
i don’t know. my dad seems pretty sad but he doesn’t express these things very well.
i should feel something, shouldn’t i?
No. I’m not close to my grandparents either and doubt I’ll feel much when they go. I dread it happening only because I know my parents will think I’m a heartless bitch when I don’t cry.
The litmus test of hypocrisy here is that if you substituted a different minority in Perry’s tunes, they’d never get airplay. “I Kissed a Black Guy” or “Ur So Korean” would not be Top 40 bound.
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ontd. lolz at ‘Ur So Korean’.
When you’re 12, without effort, you live in the moment. You don’t regret the past or worry about the future, and in that moment, Teeny filled my heart with hope and comfort.
— Now and Then, which always makes my cold heart full.